If you have multiple staff, your greatest challenges may not be from your members. (I can hear many of you saying “amen”!) Church staff can be the hardest group to get on board with innovative ideas. Imagine this staff meeting:
After much input from every area, you and the church leadership decide that it is time to move the Youth Group meeting time from Sunday night to Wednesday Night. You believe that will open the doors to the youth in your community, and it also lines up with the children’s programs on Wednesday night (and dinner). As you begin to talk about executing this change in staff, strange things begin to happen. You sense that there is hostility towards you for doing this. You also wonder why are you just now finding this out! The very people that you are counting on to make it all happen are killing the plan. Lets look at the key players:
Jerry – the music director
Sheri – the children’s pastor
Larry – the youth pastor
Larry begins by saying that he is not sure it will be as successful as everyone thinks. He is hearing from the kids that they do not want to move to Wednesday night.
You think: Wasn’t this your idea in the first place?
Unspoken reality: Larry is comfortable with the kids he has. He doesn’t know if he can effectively minister to the kids that would come on Wednesday night. He will never tell you that, but he is really scared! Fear of failure is driving him.
Sherri says that the parents are not happy about the change either. It means less time for homework on a school night.
You think: Didn’t you tell me that this would be better for families?
Unspoken reality: Sherri is barely making it with the recruiting she has to do to get enough teachers for Wednesday night. She is afraid that she will lose parent volunteers to the youth group. She is scared of failure.
Finally Jerry jumps in. “The long time members of the church think we need to leave things the way they are. They are the ones that pay the bills, and we should not ignore them!
You think: Since when are you the champion of that group?
Unspoken reality: Jerry leads the Sunday night worship service and if the youth are not there, his attendance will drop in half. He is afraid that he will be expected to change that service to attract them back for Sunday night and doesn’t think he can do it. He doesn’t want to fail.
So now you are left with a staff that has personal needs for your plan NOT to work. And you really need them to make it work. What do you do?
By the way - firing them all is not an acceptable answer.